Day 19

First offsite journal entry of the year - coming live from my very own sleep study clinic quarters! A nice big queen? Maybe double? Cameras and sensors everywhere. Decently furnished room - chair, side table, emergency button. Who knows what this night holds. This also might be the closest I get to a hotel room in H1 2026.

Because in other alaming news of the day - went to see Dr. F all nervous and unsure, and left 15 mins later with a sympathetic and willing 3 month extension. Thats more than I would have even asked for, let alone expected. And now im in disbelief, and unclear how to feel. Guilty? Paranoid? Pressure? Confusion? Relief? This puts me at mid May. A week before Victoria day. Two weeks before the would have been 74th birthday. 3 weeks before June. How did we get here.

Then - deep discussion and counselling from boy on how to handle the pending weekend ammends and this news. Friday? Sooner? Later? Never? Now? Tomorrow? How? So many questions, so many answers. HOW did we get here?

Been woozy achy headachy meh all day. Hangover, metaphoric and literal. Ugh. May the sleep study surprise me just like Dr. F did. 

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